How to Prepare for a Tarot Reading
Tips for Clarity and a Meaningful Tarot Experience
Whether you’re booking your tarot reading with me or another tarot reader, here are a few tips that will help you get the most from your tarot reading experience.
Before the Reading
Get Clear on Your Intentions
Ask yourself: What do I want clarity on?
Having a clear intention helps you ask better questions, interpret messages more deeply, and get the most out of your tarot reading.
If you’re seeking a predictive love reading, research a tarot reader who specializes in that area to ensure you're tapping into their expertise.
Important Note: If you're dealing with trauma, mental health concerns, or physical ailments, please consult a licensed professional.
Research Your Tarot Reader
Not all tarot readers are the same!
Some work in-person at metaphysical shops, markets, or fairs, while others offer online readings. They also have different reading styles—some focus on therapeutic guidance, while others incorporate mediumship or psychic abilities.
Each tarot reader also has a unique aesthetic that influences their deck choices and reading approach. If a dark and moody vibe isn't your thing, you might not resonate with a reader who leans into that style.
Before booking, check:
✅ Reviews from past clients
✅ Their website & social media (YouTube, Instagram, etc.)
✅ Their code of ethics to understand their reading approach
Preparing for Your Tarot Reading
Be Distraction-Free During Your Tarot Reading
Tarot readings should be immersive and intentional, not rushed or distracted.
If you're getting a reading at an event, short sessions (e.g., 10-minute readings) are common. Otherwise, set aside uninterrupted time so you can fully absorb the messages.
Arrive Prepared
Have your question in mind and open your energy with deep breaths before the session.
Your tarot reader may refine your question to make it more effective within a tarot spread.
During the Reading
Be Open and Honest
A tarot reading can be a vulnerable experience, but being open with your reader (to your comfort level) helps create a more personalized and meaningful session.
If something doesn’t resonate, let your reader know! They can adjust, clarify, or pull additional cards to refine the message.
Prepare for Unexpected Messages
Not all tarot messages are immediate "aha" moments. Sometimes:
🔮 Events haven’t unfolded yet.
🔮 You or your reader’s energy may be off.
🔮 Spirit may prioritize a more important message over what you originally asked.
Go in with an open mind and release expectations—you may be surprised by what comes through.
Take Notes or Record the Session
Recording your reading (if allowed) or taking notes helps you process and revisit insights later.
After the Reading
Post-reading, you might feel:
✨ Inspired by newfound clarity
😕 Agitated by unexpected messages
🤔 Curious and questioning some insights
This is normal! Let yourself reflect and return to your notes or recording after some time. Often, messages make more sense later as events unfold.